Psychology
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According to Jungian personality typology, there are two main thinking types – introverted and extroverted. Introverted thinkers value conceptual purity and coherence. They get joy from logic puzzles without real-world constraints. Extroverted thinkers care about results. If it ships and works, that’s what matters. Debates around idealism versus pragmatism often come down to personality. INTPs…
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Many of us experience a deeper layer of suffering, a “meta-pain” that arises from our attempts to process and understand another pain. This essay explores the nature of pain, its purpose, and how we can manage our suffering through cognitive reappraisal. The Origins of Suffering: We often experience pain as a result of external events,…
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Ever feel like you’re living in a “comfort bubble”? Like you’re stuck in the same cozy, yet kinda boring routine, wearing those metaphorical slippers that have seen better days, and watching reruns of your life? Comfort’s great and all, but too much of it turns you into a human equivalent of a still pond –…
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For years, I was a devoted disciple of the “hustle” gospel. Every waking moment, every ounce of energy, was sacrificed in the relentless pursuit of optimization. This self-imposed martyrdom fueled my creativity for a time, but ultimately led to burnout. My once vibrant passion sputtered, replaced by exhaustion and resentment. A few weeks ago, I…
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I’ve always found it kind of funny how we romanticize the grind in the workforce. We’re spoon-fed this notion that if we just work hard enough, efficiency will swoop in like a superhero, cut our work hours in half, and leave us basking in the glow of free time and eternal bliss. Spoiler alert: it…
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In a world that often romanticizes the ‘fail fast, fail often’ mantra, I’ve found myself pondering the nuanced reality of repeated failure and its impact on learning and self-perception. While there’s a certain allure to the notion that failure is the bedrock of success, my experiences have led me to a more tempered view. The…
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I’ve often caught myself getting lost in the illusion of infinite potential. You know, those echoing phrases like “I can do anything I set my mind to” and “there are no limits.” They’re seductive, aren’t they? They tempt me to stretch myself beyond what I’m truly capable of. I’ve learned, though, that striving for excellence…
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“You can do anything you set your mind to.” This seductive mantra, often peddled by self-help gurus, paints a misleading picture of human potential. The truth is, you, as a unique individual with inherent limitations, are more than just your aspirations. Your limitations, far from being restrictive, are the very foundation of your identity. Time,…
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While I’ve been familiar with personality theories like MBTI for some time, my initial fascination waned over the years. My concerns stemmed from the potential for oversimplification, the rigid nature of the types, and the neglect of individual uniqueness. However, I’ve found them surprisingly helpful in navigating workplace dynamics. While interactions with fellow INTJs and…
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I find Jordan Peterson’s “12 Rules for Life” quite intriguing, as it delves into personal growth and life’s challenges. While it’s gained a lot of popularity, I think it’s important to look at it from a critical perspective, acknowledging its strengths and weaknesses based on my own reflections. What I Appreciate: Where I See Shortcomings:…
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I’ve come to realize that a lot of times, I make choices without really thinking about what they mean. It’s like I’m sleepwalking through life, just reacting to what’s happening around me and ignoring that little voice inside. This kind of evasion, even though it might feel safe, can actually lead me down a path…
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Forget past achievements and accolades; they are mere relics in the ever-changing landscape of the professional world. Your true value, the currency you exchange for success and fulfillment, lies not in your “glorious” past, but in the present moment and the future you can create. While your past education and experience may offer valuable insights,…
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As the calendar flipped to the end of 2017, I found myself enveloped in a sense of deep gratitude. This past year has been a journey filled with wishes, many of which were graciously fulfilled. It’s a tradition, as each year draws to a close, to set new goals, but I’ve chosen a slightly different…